about the book



About the Book

In Better Love Next Time, J.M. Kearns discusses some of the issues that are a major priority for us after a break up: 
  • how to deal with the “wall of pain” that is a broken heart
  • why you shouldn’t force your ex to tell you why
  • how the human ego compromises our relationships, and then, after a breakup, curtails our future ability to love
  • the after-effects of betrayal: how our attempts to avoid being cheated on again can make us choose exactly the wrong partners
  • the surprising toll that cheating takes on the cheater
  • how a mismatch can trick you into feeling inadequate
  • how to get in touch with the person you were before a mismatch damaged your morale
  • the four benefits of being a couple; and how to replace them after a breakup or regain them in a different form
  • how good matches go bad – the ultimate scoop on how to make your next (good) match last