Readers speak about J.M. Kearns' writings:

"The book of hope. I followed its advice straight to a great new man I met, and now I'm
happily married to him!" — Olivia D.

"This book makes you look at relationships from a completely different perspective. I approached
someone through an avenue I had never thought of before (because Kearns helped me to see
opportunities, and empowered me to do something about it) and we have been dating ever
since. The difference about this relationship is that I didn't approach it with a sense of lack or
deficiency. This is truly a new day and a new way for me!" — Lorraine L.

"This book doesn't even deserve to be lumped in with all the other "Self Help" stuff: it's
better than that. I was shocked to find an intelligent discussion of something people almost never speak intelligently about – preferring instead to believe in some pie-in-the-sky fantasy at the exact moment they're planning a life! I brought this book to my boyfriend when we'd only been going out a few weeks: we read it together, talked about it, went on a road trip to test it out, and basically used it as a roadmap to find true compatibility…at the same time we were falling in love. I highly recommend it for couples, not just singles, because it jump-starts those conversations and questions you need to figure out before you
get all emotional and sappy. We now know things about each other we'd never thought to ask
ourselves. Oddly enough, after you figure out you really can be best friends and great partners,
all that dreamy love stuff is much deeper and more rewarding. Great book – and the little
vignettes make it hilarious, too." — Marguerite P.

"I was really impressed with the logical thought, the clarity and the easy, creative way J.M.
Kearns has of leading the reader from one thought to another. It's not patronizing but infused
with patience and insight. On top of all that wisdom and perception, it is great fun to read.
If only I had read this several relationships ago!" — Janet C.

"Remarkably honest...the only genuinely open account I've ever seen, of what goes through a
man's mind when he interacts with a woman. As a man I can say...yes, that's exactly how it is."
— August C. Bourré on techsploitation.com

"This book does even more than it thinks it's doing—it's good for men too! After reading it I
became very aware that you can't just let 'sightings' pass you by. You have to be willing to
take chances. JM Kearns helped me remember that men and women are on the same side — that
someone was out there looking for me, and wanted me to find her. Since reading it, an
amazing opportunity came my way, and I didn't blow it. Now we are dating seriously." — Vincent R.

"This book is innately refreshing because it's honest, funny because it's true. Finally a guy comes clean." — Gary H.